We went out to dinner last night with a group of people for our roommate’s belated birthday celebration. There were 8 people total, so a pretty large group. We went out for dinner and dessert.
Interestingly at the dinner place we were not charged a service fee. However at the dessert place we were charged 20% service fee, as a standard gratuity. I found this interesting.
I enjoy travelling to places where you don’t tip. Much like the dessert place, where the tip was just part of the bill. However, I wonder if it would work better in the US if everywhere you ate out or used any service, would just include a set service charge that you wouldn’t have to worry about tipping so much?
If life wouldn’t be less worrisome or stressful? At dinner the group left about 23% tip, so in all likelihood the dessert place probably got shorted because they set a standard service charge. But I realize not all people would tip more than 15%. And many times larger groups will often short the waiter because people do not all tip the same.
But I noticed our group paid the bill a lot faster when there was a set service fee of 20%. Everyone just added 20% and tax to their bill and we were off. When we had to “decide” how much to tip, people took a lot longer calculating the bill.
I will admit though that at the dinner restaurant, the service was a lot better than at the dessert place where they knew they were getting a 20% tip even though the service was not very good. But how can you argue right?
I wonder if it’s because Americans view service in terms of tipping/monetary valuation, instead of other countries where it’s a matter of pride. That even without a larger tip but a standard service charge, people just provide better service because it’s part of a job.
What have others experienced in terms of service when there is a set charge? And do you prefer it or not?



4 responses so far ↓
1 Laura // Apr 28, 2008 at 1:50 pm
This post makes me laugh… we go out to dinner with friends a lot, and it’s often such a struggle for each couple to figure out their share of the bill, plus tax and tip. It can defintely take time…and it’s very frustrating for us when we see our friend’s leaving small tips. We tip well, and often feel the need to overcompensate for our “cheap” friends!
2 Mom @ Wide Open Wallet // Apr 28, 2008 at 3:18 pm
I hate when a place adds the tip automatically. It seems tacky.
3 thebaglady // Apr 28, 2008 at 7:43 pm
I think tipping should be voluntary, too. Tacking on 20% automatically is a bit too much. It makes the servers take the tip for granted and not care as much. A tip or gratuity by definition should be something you give because you think the service is deserving of it.
4 LivingAlmostLarge // May 9, 2008 at 12:17 am
I have to agree about overcompensating for cheap friends. But I wonder what would happen if there was no service fee and we just included it in prices?
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